Is it physical abuse if 2 young adults who are drunk start to argue and then?

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the man says to the woman, "look, I need to clear my head before we continue this discussion, I have to leave" and she blocks his way, then he tries to push past her, she bites his arm, drawing blood, and he hits her hard across the head and gets by her and leaves. The next day she has bruises on her arms and her head feels like she has a concussion.

They have been living together for over a year. She wants to get married, and thinks he is the love of her life. The guy is more passive. They argue often for brief periods.

So, is this a deal-breaker?
Nope, not me! But a close friend. I also agree that this woman has a lot of liability here, by the way. That and the drinking.
 
the girl seems to be the abusive one.
#1- they where both drunk
#2- he was actually trying to cool off & leave then come back & talk to her when she was the one that prevented the whole situation. She could of backed off & cooled off to but instead she didnt so she provoked him to hit her YES YES I KNOW VIOLENCE IS NOT EVER THE ANSWER. but do you get my point??? she provoked him. If she cant control her drinking, she shouldnt drink in the first place. They need to sit down and talk things out so this wont happen again because hes a guy and is STRONGER THAN HER he shouldnt be hitting her PERIOD!!!

if talking things out between them doesnt work tell THEM TO get some counceling


hope this helps & good luck.... its probably you, huh?
 
woahhh....he hits her and she thinks he is the man of her life....by the way...she shouldtn be biting him either. If he hits her before gettting married he would beat her up after.
 
It's domestic violence on both sides. The man attempted to leave a volatile situation (good idea) but the woman physically blocked him and bit him. He reacted by hitting her. Both people need to defuse situations before they get out of control. And the woman needs to allow the man to leave the room and then call a therapist, friend or someone to calm her down.
 
It's domestic violence on both sides. The man attempted to leave a volatile situation (good idea) but the woman physically blocked him and bit him. He reacted by hitting her. Both people need to defuse situations before they get out of control. And the woman needs to allow the man to leave the room and then call a therapist, friend or someone to calm her down.
 
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