have a desire to work with them...? There are so many beautiful/handsome overweight people. I just want to work with them until it's gone and they're gorgeous. Is it wrong to be thinking of how they'd look skinny? I mean, I do understand it shows a bit how shallow our culture is...(which is why I feel a bit wrong for thinking this way)
In no way am I mean. I just really love working with them. My mom has been trying to lose weight and I just go crazy...like I throw tips and advice and I think I might go a little overboard. There was a girl, about 250-300Ibs, in my dorm hall who wanted to lose weight who was friends with my friend and I got excited. I absolutely loved it. We all circled, fast paced, the halls of the dorm, running up the stairs when we got to them and back down, carrying weights and I was on a high...she was laughing and saying "i hate you ---" but did it. It feels like an accomplishment for me. She eventually slowed down in exercising and started eating bad things again so it didn't work out and it disappointed me. My enthusiasm seems to offend and I really don't mean to. I do know that being told over and over to NOT eat that or to "do more of this" will annoy a person so I understand it could just be that I am the annoying thing standing in the way of that cup of ice cream.
Is it bad that I am thi
In no way am I mean. I just really love working with them. My mom has been trying to lose weight and I just go crazy...like I throw tips and advice and I think I might go a little overboard. There was a girl, about 250-300Ibs, in my dorm hall who wanted to lose weight who was friends with my friend and I got excited. I absolutely loved it. We all circled, fast paced, the halls of the dorm, running up the stairs when we got to them and back down, carrying weights and I was on a high...she was laughing and saying "i hate you ---" but did it. It feels like an accomplishment for me. She eventually slowed down in exercising and started eating bad things again so it didn't work out and it disappointed me. My enthusiasm seems to offend and I really don't mean to. I do know that being told over and over to NOT eat that or to "do more of this" will annoy a person so I understand it could just be that I am the annoying thing standing in the way of that cup of ice cream.
Is it bad that I am thi