Is it normal to test him before sex?

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What is the normal thing to do if your new partner wants to have some kind of unprotected sex e.g. oral? Do women really tell him to get a blood test?
 
Of coarse! Thank God you are testing him! Its not a trust thing, its just common sense! Good luck, although chances are he doesn't have anything wrong with him. But still I would.
 
you damn right girl you don't wanna catch nothing you cant wipe off i respect that a lot but have a talk with your partner and le em know that you just wanna risk anything if he freaks out and leaves you then he was just after some booty and he ain't worth trouble
 
If you're unsure or uncomfortable about having unprotected sex, ask him to get tested. If it's worth it, he'll do it for you!
 
You should, but unfortunately most people don't and they believe they are invincible, which of course leads to people getting infected with STD's.

Get tested, and don't have unprotected sex until you are ready to marry a person. If a guy is presuring you to have unprotected sex with him, he is so not worth it. You are worth being with a guy who treats you with respect.

I agree with many of the above answers, it is not a trust issue, it is common sense: most guys don't get tested for STD's. Men can show no symptoms of having an STD yet they can pass it on to you.
 
If it looks good good, and smells good, oral shouldn't be a problem. I would turn the lights on (I know is rough, but... it's your health)
After that, blood test for SURE. You can treat viruses, but they will never leaver your blood.
 
wow i would wonder how many people they have had unprotected sex with since you sd they are a new partner yet they were already able to ask for that... thats kinda like asking you to trust them with your life... i would never do it
 
Absolutely-not just because you don't trust him but because you want to be safe.You can get all kinds of diseases from oral sex as well as regular sex.And don't take no for an answer. If he gives you the bullsh*t about you not trusting him,then he probably has something to hide.If he doesn't have anything to hide,tell him to prove it.You should be tested as well just to be on the safe side.
 
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