is it normal that my husband wants me to touch his manhood a lot?

Lynnea

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Take it from me....
Reread your question. All you mentioned was your problems and how aggravated *you* are to please him. In most other situations, having sex against your will is rape. Period. However, in this case and from what you stated, you have a bad case of "me" syndrome.

I have a chronic pain illness, have had for 20 years. I just lost a wonderful, caring husband to another woman mostly because I couldnt make myself forget my own pain and suffering and think about how lonely and overloaded he was. Save your marriage while you still can! Its not too much to ask if you appreciate him.
 
since you are not giving him sex, it is only fair that you touch his penis a whole lot. that's better than him finding a younger women to have sex with. you don't want that, do you?
 
Try a vitamin called BIOFLAVENOID by Solgar. It should help.
It is normal to lose your sex drive during menopause but you still can have sex. Use a lube gel or something to help.
As for your husband - if you want to keep him happy - touch him - have sex with him - it may aggravate you but do it. It's the menopause talking and not you.
 
my husband wants me to touch his man business a lot,i think more than normal. we seldom have sex due to the fact that i have had menopause and am on anti-depressants. due to this fact,i think my husband is wanting me to touch his manhood a lot,which aggrivates me. is this normal?
 
since you are not giving him sex, it is only fair that you touch his penis a whole lot. that's better than him finding a younger women to have sex with. you don't want that, do you?
 
Wait your not having sex and hes okay with this i think the least you could do is please him in other ways and if that means hand jobs and bjs do it or he will look else where. Whats a lot to you id say once or twice a day is not alot since he isnt getting sex.
 
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