is it normal that im still curious about my sexuality?

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Angus

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hello. im 18, a guy and as far as i know, im heterosexual. now, im a big supporter of gay/lesbian/bisexual rights. i love gay people, there a big inspiration to me :) but for a few years now, ive been very, curious i guess you could say, about gay men. i do sometimes notice them at the gym, not in an "damn i wanna get with him" way. more a "nice body" sort of way. ive only ever really felt sexually attracted to women, but i still find myself curious about guys the more i think about it. is this normal for an 18 year old? what can i do about it? thanks, much love.
i have kissed guys before, but only while i was drunk. actually, it was 3 guys in one night :S
well, it was a bet, and i was drunk, but i remember having no problem with it.
im no tramp :/ and im way to big to be taken advantage of :P
 
Hey, I'm gay and I've felt the same way (obviously the opposite to you lol), yeah its completely natural and I know tonnes of straight women and believe it or not, more men who are curious and actually wanted to play around and experiment.

You never know I guess and theres only one way to find out if you're actually bi. Try it, kiss a guy or something sexual or even hug or whatever and see if theres some sort of sexual spark. You might just be curious as are a lot of straight guys out there, its completely normal and theres nothing wrong with trying it. Its actually good that you've got such an open mind :)
 
I agree, it's just curiosity, just like you said, which is completely normal, it doesn't mean you are gay...

I mean, I am 100%gay and I often think this way for women with great bodies and discuss it with my friends/boyfriend.

Especially at your age curiosity is even more normal :)
 
Yes it's entirely normal.

What can you do about it? Go out and get some experience, that's the only way you'll know for sure. :)
 
There's no such thing as 'normal', otherwise we all would have abnormalities.

And your feelings are fine; just do what you feel it's right about it
 
You're the kind of guy who is going to wind up doing something more than just kissing dudes one day after a few drinks and someone could take advantage of you. So keep your wits about you and don't be a tramp.
 
Hey Buddy

Sexuality comes in all shapes and sizes and questions and answers - if we were all the same it would get dull pretty quickly!

Do you remember how it felt when you kissed those guys - was it pleasurable - I guess if you went in 3 times it must have had some appeal:)

It could be that you are not allowing yourself to open up and experience how you really feel - which is why when you were drunk you could just let go and have a pash:)

And who knows - maybe Mr Right is out there and you just haven't met him yet - ridiculously romantic I know but hey I am in that mood:)

OR you might just be an admirer of the male form...
 
It's normal. Don't freak out. You're still het.

It's possible that, somewhere down the road, you might notice a guy in a way that goes beyond "nice body." If that happens, again, don't freak. You don't have to act on it. It doesn't make you gay, or even really bisexual. It just makes you open minded, and that can only be a good thing.
 
It's normal. Don't freak out. You're still het.

It's possible that, somewhere down the road, you might notice a guy in a way that goes beyond "nice body." If that happens, again, don't freak. You don't have to act on it. It doesn't make you gay, or even really bisexual. It just makes you open minded, and that can only be a good thing.
 
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