Is it normal for a girl to find the topic of sex ridiculous or funny?

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imran

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A girl I'm seeing has a problem - she finds the subject of sex either ridiculous or funny. She skates around the topic when we talk about it or she makes jokes. She's only 19 and inexperienced, and she says she's never viewed herself in a sexual way and she can't get her head around the fact that someone finds her sexually attractive! We've done it a few times but we're currently apart so it's a long distance thing at the moment. I find it strange she can't talk about sex seriously and I'm not sure what's gonna happen the next time I spend time with her. It all seems a bit immature to me.....what do you people think? Is this perfectly normal or does she have serious issues?
 
If she doesn't feel like a sexual person, she probably feels kinda uncomfortable about it.
Maybe she is still a little immature, but it won't always be that way.
Maybe she will have to have been out with a couple of guys before she does actually take it a bit more seriously though.
 
hmm well u should tell her that u would like to seriously talk about and that she's being immature
and i doubt shes never thought of all that stuff..its impossible unless theres something wrong w/ her hormones
 
IDK but maybe the next time you two have sex really put it on her.lol if she is that immature to talk about it maybe she will never grow out of that stage.Maybe you should move on and find a a woman instead of a girl.you can tell the difference by the way they conversate.Areal woman will tell you what she wants and likes in the bed room.
 
She's either very immature, or very insecure.
She may feel uncomfortable talking about it because she does not accept and appreciate her body. She may feel embarassed and awkward on the topic due to this insecurity. So she'll make a joke or go off topic to avoid these feelings.
And if you've done "it" a few times, she is not inexperienced.
So maybe try talking to her about it.
Say, "Listen, I kinda have a feeling that you don't like to talk about sex with me because you're uncomfortable. I wish you'd tell me, because you shouldn't feel uncomfortable. I'm attracted to you." Something like this.
 
Sounds like you are both immature. Sex is for a husband and wife in the context of marriage only. Neither of you have any business discussing it or doing it right now. Enjoy life just having fun! Don't worry about growing up so fast. It will come soon enough.
 
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