Is it inconsiderate for your in-laws to still talk and visit with your husband's ex?

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My in-laws still refer to my husband's ex as their other daughter and his sisters refer to her as their sister. I really don't care to be liked by his parents but it seems like she just doesn't want to go away. My husband and i had some problem about her before (not about his family but about him and her) It wasn't too bad its just that it seems to me like she is just keeping herself around just in case things between her and her husband don't work out on account that her and my husband where always braking up and getting back together. Any who. Like i said i don't care if his parents don't like me. But i believe that they are being inconsiderate. My husband has told his mother to stop talking to her and to take off this picture of her on my mother in-laws myspace (lol yeah i think its funny when old people have myspace). Is it just me? I'm one to treat people the way they treat me. Should i show the same courtesy? My husband and i have a daughter and she Always wants me to keep her updated and stuff (since we live far away) My husband has no time so its up to me. I just don't see why i have to. My husband has no problem with it but i feel like i'm obligated. You know?
 
well if they had a good relationship with her its not going to stop just because you think you are queen sheeba.. and yes you have an oblgatin to help your daughter keep intouch with her grandmother wether you like hr or not. shit I do it and I cant stand the b*tch!!
 
eeeeks ! I hate when people say "any who" ! so annoying ! does he have children with the x ? then they have grand children and maybe they love her,should they stop because he did ?
 
I was following you until the end... what does 'my husband and I have a daughter and she always wants me to keep her updated' have to do with any of this?

As for the rest... was your husband married to this ex or is she just an ex girlfriend? It does seem a little odd. However if your husband and this ex have children together then I would be a lot more understanding about the situation. What does your husband think of his parents being friends with this woman?

I've remained friends with my first love's parents BUT we were kids when we dated... looking back we were more best friends then girlfriend/boyfriend. I did everything with his family though and liked his Mom so much. So I still keep in touch... it made his NOW wife pretty ticked that his parents and him still talk to me BUT come on... we are in our 30s that was a lifetime ago! I'm now married and just wrote a Christmas card out to his parents and another to him & his family. Heck... him & his wife were invited to my wedding AND so were his parents!!!
 
Well That seems crazy but hey she's an ex for a reason. Why are they even keeping in touch with her? Well whatever the reason is there must be a connection that shouldn't stop you. But i believe though your husbands parents are that way you should still treat them with respect who knows maybe his ex always kissed there @ss. Well just keep it strong.
 
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