My husband is irritated beacuse he notices the floor needs sweeping and he has to get out the broom and do it. He didn't like that I had my hair up in a bun and had on sweats saturday afternoon. He doesn't like when I cook meals because I dont clean up as I go like he would do. He tells me these things last night...it explains why he was acting the way he was. He says he has no option but to act passive agressive toward me because other methods don't seem to work. He says that it's abnormal that I don't have complaints and criticisms of him. But you see...I am a tolerant, patient peson who trys not to have expectations of others or judge another. I am happy go lucky. I guess my only criticism of him is his judgment of me and expectation that I do things a certain way. Now I am struggling with real dislike and resentment toward him - which makes me feel ill. What are your thoughts? We have been married 4 years, second time for both. We both work fulltime careers. thank you. I need some advice.
Is it fair - his perception of me?
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