Is it creepy to have sex with a guy 10 years my senior?

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I'm 17 and I've known a 27 year old for a year and he always flirts with me, and I flirt back. We've talked loads about sex and I know I'd be comfortable having sex with him. But should I lose my virginity or wait until I get a boyfriend. And is 25 to old for me to date?
 
That is pushing the limits of what is considered OK. The general rule is half your age +7. So he shouldn't be having sex with anyone under the age of 20-21. Not to mention that it might be illegal, depending on where you are.

However, I do understand that girls are naturally attracted to older men easier and there is some allure to having sex with someone "more experienced." But you should be careful what his motives are. Most men that much older than you don't really care about you or your feelings. They just want sex with a young hot girl. I am 24 years old and if a 17 year old girl wanted me, I would probably have sex with her too, but I wouldn't give a rats ass about her feelings, and I wouldn't want a relationship with her because she would be too immature for me.

So be careful and make sure you don't do it because you expect to find love with him. And if you do decide to do it, make him use a condom!!! No exceptions!
 
That is pushing the limits of what is considered OK. The general rule is half your age +7. So he shouldn't be having sex with anyone under the age of 20-21. Not to mention that it might be illegal, depending on where you are.

However, I do understand that girls are naturally attracted to older men easier and there is some allure to having sex with someone "more experienced." But you should be careful what his motives are. Most men that much older than you don't really care about you or your feelings. They just want sex with a young hot girl. I am 24 years old and if a 17 year old girl wanted me, I would probably have sex with her too, but I wouldn't give a rats ass about her feelings, and I wouldn't want a relationship with her because she would be too immature for me.

So be careful and make sure you don't do it because you expect to find love with him. And if you do decide to do it, make him use a condom!!! No exceptions!
 
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