...like cuddling and holding? If he just does the deed then gets up to take a shower and it's kind of mechanical, is that common? Does it mean he doesn't really love her? What do you think?
sometimes i do that and i feel bad.
my body just gets really hot after and i feel gross cuddling with my girls body so i put my shirt clothes on or something or wait to cool off
I think it's fine..as long as y'all cuddle/hold at other times.
With my ex, we always cuddled after sex. With my husband, he sweats a lot during sex so as soon as we're done I'm out of there haha. If we cuddled after sex I'd just feel gross..I'd rather get up and take a shower. We do cuddle before we go to bed though. But even if y'all never do that at all, that doesn't mean he doesn't love you!