My girlfriend is very guilt-ridden about her sexual experiences. I think she only had two, and in one she had her hymen broken. Meanwhile she acts all religious and moral so she decides to tell me she doesnt have a hymen anymore just in case we get married and I find out anyway. So I asked her a little about it, and she said it wasnt a boyfriend, and she didnt know he was going to poke at her vagina and break her hymen. In fact, she sounds very angry about it, which I can understand. Now, I am willing to overlook her hooking up if I knew the guy reached into her clothes and did it, or if he removed her underwear and then went ahead, but I cant be with a hypocrite knowing that she removed her own underwear, then only cries about it once he had broken it.