Is it bad to stay with someone because of sex?

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I have been with my bf for 4 yrs and he doesn't want to take things to the next level he talks about it all the time though. He is jealous and he makes me feel bad when he does something wrong. We have been fighting alot lately too. I am afraid to break up with him because it has been so long that we have been together and I still love him so much I really do but it seems like we are growing apart. I am afraid if I do break up with him and we were meant to be then I loose that and the feeling I get when I am with him but also I am afraid that I will never have the sex that we have together..lol..
What should I do?
 
Hi Happy, if is about sex, then it'll be easy for you. Why ?
Cuz with all the experience you had with this 4 years guy,
you'll bound to be able to teach a whole lot more to a new b/f.
Don't you ?
Or perhaps you'll get a better one with more experience.
Like, who knows, the new one might be better, right ?
 
wow the sex must be good. you are not happy sex alone isn't going to keep you happy 4 ever one day you will get old and sex wont be there what are you going to do then you need to move on to someone that loves you and trust me the sex thing it will be great with the new guy to if not you can always use a toy
 
It will be a bad mistake over time, what are you going to do when you're 80 and aren't in the mood for sexual things anymore?

You need to find someone who can make you happy in all aspect of your life.
 
well if you guys are in love then ya that's bound to happen. try not to ket it get to you. see what he thinks about being friends but tell him you love him. see what he says.
 
if you are getting distant i would say leave for someone right, and dont worry about the sex as you would find someone that will fulfill your sexual needs out there in time
 
well if you 2 are meant for each other, even if you break up now, you'll still end up together.. my suggestion is that you cool off first then observe. if things don't get better, then move on. there'll be someone out there who does better than him.. maybe even in the ways you want him to be better at(you know what i mean;-))
 
ask him if he is ready to take the next level and see if there are any sparks left
 
thats normal to feel that. We wouldn't be human if we didn't think that way. I just got out of my relationship about a year ago and I felt like that to. If it helps I felt a lot better after just a few months of being away from her, just make sure you dont go back to see him or talk with him, dont communicate at all cause thats half the battle.
 
lol - you will have better sex with other people.. don't let that be your deciding factor.
 
you'll feel worse if you just hang on to him for sex.

he'll become your sex buddy instead of a real boyfriend, and unless your both into that, usually doesn't work out that well
 
hell no. but u should start lookin for a sideline/back up plan. most guys got one. some actually actually mess with the chick some just talk. u decide what you wanna do. people have to understand there are PLENTY OF GIRLS/GUYS OUT THERE.
 
Get mature and get on with your life.. Sounds to me that you are more scared of being along, than really being in love with him.
How can you be in love with someone that is often jealous and makes you feel 'bad' and also wants to fight a lot?
Sex is not worth being treated like that..Besides, sex is only a part of a relationship and so a commitment should never be based exclusively on that.
 
Hell ya! #1, your bein used, #2, nothin is ever goin further than it is so therefore the so called "relationship" is a HUGE waste of your time. GET OUT.
 
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