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I have big trust issues with him because a few months ago he lied stating he was home all weekend when later I found out he had gone to a different town and spent the whole weekend there, he said to visit a friend but I am always wondering why it had to be such a secret if it was just to visit his friend there. Since then I doubt what he tells me and it's been a lot of effort working on the relationship.
Tonight, Saturday night, he says he wants to visit that same friend in that town. I said the only way I'll be ok with that is if I either meet him first or talk to him on the phone, but he says I should just trust him, that it's not a phantom person. I said you don't want to take me with him, you don't want me to meet or talk to him and of all places and people it's the place you went you had to lie to me about that I have lost trust over you for and now you expect me to be ok for you to go there like this? I said I was breaking up and hung up on him.
Do you think I'm over-reacting? Or do you think he's wrong or what?
Tonight, Saturday night, he says he wants to visit that same friend in that town. I said the only way I'll be ok with that is if I either meet him first or talk to him on the phone, but he says I should just trust him, that it's not a phantom person. I said you don't want to take me with him, you don't want me to meet or talk to him and of all places and people it's the place you went you had to lie to me about that I have lost trust over you for and now you expect me to be ok for you to go there like this? I said I was breaking up and hung up on him.
Do you think I'm over-reacting? Or do you think he's wrong or what?