is he still into his ex or why the sudden mood swings?

Java Jutee

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Easy....he still has feelings for the ex, using you to make her jealousy but it back fired. So you might wanna rethink this relationship. Also long distance affairs are very tricky, most are fantasy based the time spent is on the cell phone dreaming dreams. A girlfriend or two in his home town, yet you're the only one 800 miles away.
 
i've been dating this guy for 8 months. it's been a very serious relationship long distance relationship( chicago to florida). we get to see each other like twice a month. he talks alot about marriage, includes me in his future plans, announces that he is in love and has found "the one" and he has stopped flirting with other girls. he met my family, and ive met his..we've planned the year we would get married.so it's pretty serious.communication is very intense..

he and his last ex broke up a year ago. they talked after a few months of no contact...and i believe she thought they were getting back together...until he met me! when i came visiting, he took me over to his organization and everyone could tell that he has a new girlfriend. so they dont contact eachother anymore..and she left their organization.

problem: ever since they broke up, his ex didnt date anyone( so i heard). now, my boyfriend just noticed she has started dating someone else and he has been totally moody and differnt after that.
he acts so moody, mad, and just angry...he has suddenly become so busy etc..but he doesnt know i know it's because his ex is seriously involved with someone else....what do i do???

he chose me over her..so why the sudden change and anger?? or am i missing something?

i mean, she wanted him but he met me and chose me instead so why is he being moody now???
 
Long distance relationships don't work. This is an example. You want to believe that it's serious, but it's only eight months, and he's highly emotional still about his previous relationship. Do you really think you have his whole heart? I think he was using you to make her jealous, but he's the one who's jealous instead.
 
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