BrunetteGurl
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Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He recently unofficially proposed (gonna talk to the parents first) and says he is very serious about us. Well, I happened across a pic of him and his ex kissing on his comp...I asked him if he would delete the pics of his exes. He said no. (I wasn't telling him to...just asking for informational purposes.) Then I asked him if when we are engaged if he would give me the password to his phone and email and computer. He replied no. Since he said the comp contained too much pornographic stuff for my eyes.
I am upset about the pics...I am upset about the passwords and the porn...I feel like I can't trust him now. I am saving myself for after marriage. Could he just be doing all this for sex? To "attain the unattainable?" This scares me...What should I do? I love him and with my parents' consent was going to say yes.
I am upset about the pics...I am upset about the passwords and the porn...I feel like I can't trust him now. I am saving myself for after marriage. Could he just be doing all this for sex? To "attain the unattainable?" This scares me...What should I do? I love him and with my parents' consent was going to say yes.