Is he living the down low(bisexual) lifestyle?

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Sasha

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I've been dating a young man for about 3 months prior to him moving to another country. I met him at the gym along with his friend(guy). I spoke to his friend and I got a weird feeling. His friend automatically claimed to have not liked me. My boyfriend first time on a date with him, he invited me along with his friend to go eat. I said no thanks. From time to time it felt like he was sneaking and calling me when he was with his guy friend. He never wanted to do anything with me, but yet he's always taking trips to Atlanta and Charlotte to Frat parties, as least that's what he claims. He can always make time for that. He is currently 34. Every pic he has sent me, seems like he's always with a group of men. I never see him with any females. I asked him recently if he was on the down low. He LOL and asked me if I really thought he was. I said yes and he just kept laughing. Finally I said I want to know. Give me a yes or no answer. Needless to say, he eventually said no. Then he said I have Lesbian tendacies. I told him not true, you're just saying that because I accused you of being on the down low. He just arrived from Iraq and I was going to drive 5 hours to see him. I told him if he is down low that I don't want to sleep with a down low or gay man. He said okay. So we had planned for me to get him when he called me the next day. He never called/emailed me. Do you think I made the right decision to leave him alone? Does it sound like he may be living the down low lifestyle? Please help me.........
 
Whether he's "on the down low" or not, it doesn't seem to me that he's very honest or open with you. My advice would be to avoid this guy and look for someone who will be up front with you.
 
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