Is God testing me, preparing me??? What?

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The Winner

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So last year, I liked a girl in one of my classes. We flirted a lot with each other. It was obvious we liked each other. So then summer break came, and we lost contact with each other. Many times I tried forgetting about her,but I couldnt. I stayed patient until school started. I prayed for him to take me down the right path in my life. So when I went back to school, she was in one of my classes. Weve been having small talk in and after class almost everyday. But Ive been really wondering whats his purpose. Im woried that she doesnt like me anymore. I cant tell if he's testing my faith, or preparing me for something, or giving me a second chance! What could it be??
 
you've asked this many times. i think it's time for some new questions. God wouldn't put anyone through this much turmoil in their mind if the person was meant to be with them. at this point you're just obsessed with this girl. get over it. cuz the right girl could come along and you'd still be fixed on this girl that you should get over.
 
I am fairly certain that God doesn't get that involved with crushes you have. The whole point to life is to see how you handle problems, I think that if you just do the best you can you'll be okay. Don't leave it up to God's will, it is up to do to make something happen. That is what God would want to see anyway. (I think... technically I can't really say anything in the name of God). Good luck and have some faith - In yourself!
 
Hopefully I can give you some good advice since I think that God has tested me in similar ways in the past. For instance, I would like a girl and it would never work out. But in the end, I realized that it was better that it didn't.

I can't say whether or not you're meant to be with this girl or not. Continue to be yourself with her, definitely keep that friendship open. But also try to focus on God in this time. Spend a lot of time in His Word and in prayer. He will work everything out whether that means you guys hook up or not. Keep trusting in Him and He will eventually lead you to the right person!
 
I am fairly certain that God doesn't get that involved with crushes you have. The whole point to life is to see how you handle problems, I think that if you just do the best you can you'll be okay. Don't leave it up to God's will, it is up to do to make something happen. That is what God would want to see anyway. (I think... technically I can't really say anything in the name of God). Good luck and have some faith - In yourself!
 
i had the absolute opposite experience...i was hoping to see this girl again this semster and i didnt...i wanted to do this semester what i didnt have the confidence to do last semster....

so if i were you, id stop reading into it so much....if you like her, talk to her and see where it goes.
 
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