Ok well like the question says...is first time sex usually bad or "not the best", but what i really want to know is if me doing bad is the reason certain things arent right.
well i dont wana get into details but well me and my gf have ben together for like 3-4 months and we were talking about sex and she said she was ok with it and asked me if i was...well of course me being a dumbass, and not thinking about it, i said yes... so basicly we were getting into it and all that and we tryed the typical normal vaginal sex... its ben a while and half way through i realized, we didnt have protection. so i stopped and she was all bummed and i was trying to tell her that i didnt want to get her pregnant bcuz we didnt have protection. she was still kinda down and half mad at me bcuz we couldnt contenue. i was trying to convince her that it was my falt i didnt think about it and that we should be protected, but she was just like not saying anything and mad at me. So basicly we still had sex, just pleased eachother in other ways.
i might mention that it was my first time and not hers.
So i actually have a few questions if you dont mind.
1--was that wrong of me to do?...because i feel good knowing that i said something, but bad bcuz she was enjoying it, and i kinda killed the moment..i guess...
2--of what my story portrayed, was that even decent enough for a first time? besides the fact that i forgot protection...and maybe that we got off other than vaginal sex...
3--since we didnt actually really have sex, in the way of "getting off inside/with eachother" way...does it make me seem less manly/ not good at sex/ etc...?
4--she hasnt talked to me for maybe 2 days...so am i over reacting? because i fell like everythings my falt...
5--do i have to many questions?
sigh....thank you for your time...
well i dont wana get into details but well me and my gf have ben together for like 3-4 months and we were talking about sex and she said she was ok with it and asked me if i was...well of course me being a dumbass, and not thinking about it, i said yes... so basicly we were getting into it and all that and we tryed the typical normal vaginal sex... its ben a while and half way through i realized, we didnt have protection. so i stopped and she was all bummed and i was trying to tell her that i didnt want to get her pregnant bcuz we didnt have protection. she was still kinda down and half mad at me bcuz we couldnt contenue. i was trying to convince her that it was my falt i didnt think about it and that we should be protected, but she was just like not saying anything and mad at me. So basicly we still had sex, just pleased eachother in other ways.
i might mention that it was my first time and not hers.
So i actually have a few questions if you dont mind.
1--was that wrong of me to do?...because i feel good knowing that i said something, but bad bcuz she was enjoying it, and i kinda killed the moment..i guess...
2--of what my story portrayed, was that even decent enough for a first time? besides the fact that i forgot protection...and maybe that we got off other than vaginal sex...
3--since we didnt actually really have sex, in the way of "getting off inside/with eachother" way...does it make me seem less manly/ not good at sex/ etc...?
4--she hasnt talked to me for maybe 2 days...so am i over reacting? because i fell like everythings my falt...
5--do i have to many questions?
sigh....thank you for your time...