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kj_0324
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My husband and I have been going through some changes in our marriage. He was away for a 6 month business trip, and I feel he has come back a different person. For starters he told me I can not see his paystub anymore, and he has changed all the passwords to his emails and telephones. The night he came back to the states from his trip he went to stay in a "hotel" without even telling me he was here in our city. I have busted him chatting with some females before but he has never acted like this. I think the time apart has not done us any good...
The weird thing is he does not hang out on weekends, he is home, and he does come home from work...So maybe he is just talking to another female? He does talk to me bad at times, and I feel like he doens't respect me. I asked him what all these changes were about and he said that it is time that he got some balls and not give me access to everything. I feel like if you don't have anything to hide, what is all the privacy about?
So now we have 2 little kids 5 and 3...and I am 8 months pregnant with our 3rd child. Part of me wants out of this marriage, but I am a homemaker (with a college degree), and he does provide financial security for me and the kids.
Should I try to work through this, or just walk away with my self respect? Do I choose emotional or financial security.
The weird thing is he does not hang out on weekends, he is home, and he does come home from work...So maybe he is just talking to another female? He does talk to me bad at times, and I feel like he doens't respect me. I asked him what all these changes were about and he said that it is time that he got some balls and not give me access to everything. I feel like if you don't have anything to hide, what is all the privacy about?
So now we have 2 little kids 5 and 3...and I am 8 months pregnant with our 3rd child. Part of me wants out of this marriage, but I am a homemaker (with a college degree), and he does provide financial security for me and the kids.
Should I try to work through this, or just walk away with my self respect? Do I choose emotional or financial security.