Is dirty dancing cheating?

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My wife went to vegas with her friends and i found pictures of her dirty dancing with a random guy. It was very dirty, they were grinding all over each other and the guy was putting her in sexual positions. I'm very pissed off and thinking ending the marriage. Any opinions will help.
 
i'ts Las Vegas so it's easy for stuff like this to happen. Too many opportunities. And is it possible you have some trust issues with her? If this hurts your trust tell her! (My bf told me he trusts me, even dancing with another guy. It's confident.)
It wasn't cheating. But it is unloyal. I don't think it's divorce worthy. More like tell her how you feel about it - direct communication=key
 
you mean you are ending your what? sounds like you are very jealous to me over a dance so why not sit down and takk about it and if this can't change things then you know the position you are in.
 
what happens in vegas stays in vegas. let it go and next time don't let your wife go t vegas wit out you DUH!
 
Is it cheating? No. Is it crappy and dishonorable? Of course.

Take a few days and cool off. This is as much for your good as for hers. Then confront her. You need to be more concerned about the root causes of this than the actual event. If she's grinding on other guys there is a reason. She may be unhappy with you in particular, or just marriage in general. Some people don't do well with the loss of freedom that comes with marriage.

That isn't your fault, but she has made it yours to deal with. You need to figure out what is really going on and then go from there.

I hope you can save your marriage, but this is probably not a good indicator of things to come. I wish you luck.
 
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