is casual sex ok?...can u guys help me cuz i don't think i understand the wrong in casual sex?

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The thing wrong with casual sex is that you have many different partners and condoms can break or get a tear and birth control doesn't always work ( and is so incredibly bad for your body and health) so it could result in an unwanted baby or an unwanted STD.And the more casual sex you have the more likely this is to happen. Not to mention you probably don't ask then if they have been tested or if you do, you probably just believe their answer. Im not going to try to be on a soap box and say I've never done it, however it was once, and I felt terrible afterwards.
 
There is nothing wrong in having a friend with benefits, Ive done it and never regretted it... Just dont go sleeping with random guys all the time, and be sure to use protection....
 
After a few times, the intimacy of sex will lose the value of being a special moment to share with someone special. Since FWB has no emotional ties, you soon see that person as not much more than a live sex toy. You don't really respect a person like that. No respect for them means you lose respect for yourself. But some people don't care, they just want to feel good right now.
 
Have you ever read The Word of God?? Sexual promiscuity is dangerous to your health( 1 Corinthians 3:16;6:18;Romans 1:27;).The Bible warns that "he (or she) who commits sexual immorality sins against his (or her ) own body," and will "receive in themselves" the penalty of their error. Much data now confirms that ANY sexual relationship outside of holy matrimony is unsafe. What part of "incurable" sexually transmitted don't you get?? Are you ready to be a stay at home Mom, more than likely single?? No life??
 
If you are careful, sex for the sake of sex is fine, a lot of fun in deed...with a fiend, make sure you both are clear about what it is before you start though. Can save a lot of difficulty and damage to the friendship. Casual sex with people you don't know has a ton of draw backs...forget the emotional issues, but just the risk of disease and prgnancy...and even condoms aren't 100% for a lot of nasty little diseases. So again...planning ahead is important. make sure you know your partner, you both want the same thing, and you have both been tested before starting with a new partner. if that spoils the mood or is too much effort, then either be monogomous or look forward to a life as a single mother with herpes. Or as a lonely guy that never made a real connection with any one and can't now, cause nobody will get close to a guy with genital warts.
 
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