is casual sex ok?...can u guys help me cuz i don't think i understand the wrong in casual sex?

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I have asked a lot of people but they were mostly friends and I need more opinions to understand what's the difference and does it make u a bad person if u have a "friend with benefits"?
 
No, there is no problem with casual sex unless you are being stupid/ not using protection. Have fun and be careful!
 
its not bad but women tend to need something emotionally as well and friend with benefits will never meet the bill
 
Does it make you a bad person to have sex with lots of people casually? noIs it extremely dangerous and life threatening? yes
 
i dont think its bad to have a friend with benefitsi have one right now(:its better then having a relationship.. well, sometimes.
 
i don't think there is anything wrong with it, but i wouldn't go around telling people though esp my friends.
 
yerh because it makes u a whore and u r degarding urself coz u can do better and ur just using some1
 
i dont think it makes u a bad person. it makes u Human, ppl hv needs. its better to have casual sex with a friend u trust than random sex with strangers. just think of it that way :) gd luck
 
It's none of our business.JUST USE PROTECTION, especially if you are not in a committed relationship and/or have multiple partners
 
No it does not make you a bad person. I just think it is harder for some people to not become attached and want more out of friends with benefits. Usually in the end , this ends up leaving one person with a broken heart because over time they realzied they want more than the other person. Just be sure that this is what you really want, It can be hard. Also it is a little riskier, because of the chance of becoming pregnant. Because if you aren't in a realtionship with the person now, imagine how hard it would be if you were having a baby together. There is always a chance for mistakes
 
www.questionablecontent.netif you take the time to read the wholeeeee thing, youll see that casual sex can be rewarding!
 
Some people feel all right about that, but might regret it later. Some people always feel wrong about it. Some people want to be in love with the person they make love with.
 
well that dependsif your definition of SEX is meaningless gratification of hormones etc than whatev. i would think that makes a person a bad person tho or at least an immoral personpersonally i believe that sex is an act of self giving, a surrendering of self to someone who loves you and that kind of love in sex should only be expressed between a person and their spouse
 
It doesn't make you a bad person. It think the problem is that usually one person has deeper feelings than the other and will probably get hurt. I think that if both people know what to expect and use protection then it's fine.
 
"Casual" sex is 100% a'ok as long as you take personal responsibility for your sexuality.Meaning... You ALWAYS use protection. You have sat down and had a full disclosure conversation with the person you are with so both parties are 100% aware that this is a casual relationship ONLY.You and your partner understand that though it is none of the other person's business who they sleep with, they will make you aware of any sexual partners they have had or may had to make 100% sure that both of you are disease free.You BOTH go for STD Check Ups 2 to 3 times a year.Casual Sex is ONLY wrong when it is treated CASUALY!Stupid people having sloppy, unprotected sex with anyone that says yes is the "Bad" kind of casual sex.As long as there is full and open communication between partners and both condoms and dental dams are used then there is nothing to be ashamed of.The idea that you need "1 man, 1 woman - together for life" is not based in reality...It is a social convention that is more for show then anything else.That kind of relationship has been rare since the begining of time.ANYONE that tells you different is not well versed in history and is deluding themselves based on their religious brainwashing.* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Penn & Teller: Family Values Part 1http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQmAGBbOmasPenn & Teller: Family Values Part 2http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8ciihd0iloPenn & Teller: Family Values Part 3http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCe5pWjMo1k* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
 
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