Is being this young and wanting to get married weird?

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Rara

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I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I know that's not a long time at all, but I also know that he is the one I am going to grow old with. I feel like I'm ready to get married and start a family, even though I know it's impossible because of school and finances.

Is it weird to still want that though?
 
Why would you think it's weird? You're in love.You could have a small wedding but put the family on hold until you're out of school and your finances improve.
 
Its not wierd for you to be thinking about that. You have had this guy in your life for a year, and its normal for you to think about the future and where things are going. You will probably be out of school in a few years and be ready to make the decision to get married if your boyfriend is ready.
 
No, it's not weird. It's the typical dream of any girl to be married with kids. While I advise you NOT to get married right now, I will not tell you that you are wrong. I suggest you get your affairs in order first. I know first-hand how hard it is to have a child BEFORE completing college, getting a career, and being financially stable. Do things in the right order, and you'll be fine. Not that it's impossible to do things like I did and be alright. Best of luck to you.
 
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