Irrational Thoughts... Need Advice

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For the past couple of weeks I have had a very high level of anxiety regarding a poor decision I made a couple weekenRAB ago. Long story short, I cheated on my fiance with another woman, however did not sleep with her. However, the other woman and I wanted to have sex, tried, but were unable to because of my intoxication level.

I immediately confessed to my fiance, who has decided to work on this issue with me and we are still getting married. I know that I am very, very lucky to have a second chance, however I am still reliving the night in my mind over and over again, often making myself sick in the process.

While I am still working on forgiving myself for this selfish act, I cannot help but worry that in some twisted way, the sex attempt was enough to somehow get this other woman pregnant.

I know for a fact that we could not have sex, and there is no way that I ejaculated or anything like that because I was unable to achieve an erection. Despite these biological facts, I still cannot get over the thought that I have much more to worry about than this guilty conscience.

I guess my question is this: despite knowing that the probability of pregnancy is incredibly low, how can I convince myself of this fact and corabat my irrational thoughts?

Thank you to anyone who can offer help.
 
I agree with you. You are VERY lucky to still be engaged. I would have been gone. And my advice to you is if you're going to act this way when you're drinking you may want to quit before you get married.

As for the pregnancy part...you didn't have sex...you didn't have an erection, so what's the worry?
 
I appreciate the advice.

That's my whole point, though: I don't know why the worry exists. It just does. Hence "irrational thought".
 
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