Me and my girlfriend of two years used to be intimate with each other all the time. We would kiss, make out, and...other things. You get my drift. Well, over this past year to year and a half our love life's really declined. She says it's because we used to do it all the time and she's gotten bored of it. She says that she still finds me hot and everything else, but I still wonder sometimes. She's gotten to where she doesn't even wanna kiss me most of the time. I still get the same thrill of it as I always have, and that concerns me. What really confuses me is that every now and then she'll just want to do that stuff SO bad, and then half an hour later want nothing to do with it. For the most part, I respect her decision and back off until she comes to me. However, there are times where I can't stay off of her, but what guy can every now and then? Anyway, I just wanna know if her behavior is something I should be worried about or what? Do I deserve a little more, or should I just keep my space as I am? Thanks for the help, because I'm really confused... : P
Forgot to mention the reason why she says we aren't doing that stuff. Her mother had her at 16. She doesn't want to end up like that. She also says that she doesn't have any self control and she wants to cut it all out because any of it could lead to sex which leads to pregnancy. It seems to be believable, but like I said, I just don't know.
Yet again, sorry. She does show SOME signs of still loving me, because she enjoys holding my hand and hugging and cuddling up. She just doesn't wanna do any of the more..."active" things.
Forgot to mention the reason why she says we aren't doing that stuff. Her mother had her at 16. She doesn't want to end up like that. She also says that she doesn't have any self control and she wants to cut it all out because any of it could lead to sex which leads to pregnancy. It seems to be believable, but like I said, I just don't know.
Yet again, sorry. She does show SOME signs of still loving me, because she enjoys holding my hand and hugging and cuddling up. She just doesn't wanna do any of the more..."active" things.