I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years.For about the first 6 months we had a really active sex life and now its kinda died out.I feel guilty because it is my fault that we haven't been having much sex.He will initiate alot and I turn him down and I feel bad because he thinks theres something wrong with him when its not its with me.
I just haven't been feeling good about myself lately and I do not feel comfortable doing the whole thing anymore and I feel like if I do hell be thinking of someone else because I don't see how he could feel attracted to me any more.
If it was me that wanted it and he kept turning me down Id feel real bad like there was something wrong with me.How can I stop feeling so self conscious and get back into the hang of things?I don't want him to feel unwanted and think about finding someone else..anyone else ever go threw this?
thanks everyone
I try to talk about it but he just tells me that he loves me and I am so beautiful to him but when I look in the mirror I dont see it..and when I do have sex now I dont enjoy I just want it to be over with and I never was like this until about a year ago.I dont want to loose my relationship because I feel bad and dont trust that my boyfriend finds me attractive
I just haven't been feeling good about myself lately and I do not feel comfortable doing the whole thing anymore and I feel like if I do hell be thinking of someone else because I don't see how he could feel attracted to me any more.
If it was me that wanted it and he kept turning me down Id feel real bad like there was something wrong with me.How can I stop feeling so self conscious and get back into the hang of things?I don't want him to feel unwanted and think about finding someone else..anyone else ever go threw this?
thanks everyone
I try to talk about it but he just tells me that he loves me and I am so beautiful to him but when I look in the mirror I dont see it..and when I do have sex now I dont enjoy I just want it to be over with and I never was like this until about a year ago.I dont want to loose my relationship because I feel bad and dont trust that my boyfriend finds me attractive