I love my boyfriend, I do. He just seems like he's not fully into the relationship... I share my secrets and he gives me empty overviews of things - no real secrets, or detailed events of the day... This is how it is every day in our daily lives. He claims he loves me; but every time we are having sex, he loses his erection... He says it's only been with me that that happens to him. Its been like this for our entire 8 month relationship. He's from India and the culture is different there I guess, but I don't think it should effect his erection.