So let me get this straight..you have no problems or if a problem just happens to come your way, you don't talk about it with anyone you just deal with it all on your own, correct? You have all of the answers, yes? You're never helped through anything, is that right? You just live and enjoy life and change things to make them better and it's just that easy for you and life is just a bowl of cherries, right? Admirable, gold star for you.
Come on now, don't you think you're over-simplifying here? If you're intelligent at all, you know that there are many different types of people out here walking around in the world. Some are experts at repressing what's going on with them and don't have to burden other people with stories and moaning and groaning and such. You may be this pillar of strength and if you are, whoopee for you.
Some people just live their lives "out loud" that way and if they are going through a hard time, they have to get it off of their chest. For many, that's what helps them get through it. If you don't have time for it, then just go the other way but everyone is not built like you so don't come off like you've got a handle on life and everybody should just do things the way you do them and the world would be ok.
Puh-leez, girl.