My MIL and I lived together first time when she visited us in US. She did things with that there were really stupid like I must not talk much to my FIL or my husband when she is around or my husband cant help me in kitchen when she is there, when serving food only asking others but not me etc etc... the list goes on. My husband was on my side all the time and she got pissed. so she stopped talking to me and I took initiative more than 10 times. Like come up with a topic but she just wont change and always give a sad face. My husband did a lot for them money wise since they have 0 and were in deep problems before my hubby came to US and even then she is so ungrateful. He must have spent over 130k so far. Even then she wont respect me and always blame my husband for not doing enough to keep her happy. They went back to India but she wont talk to me and this time I decided to not talk as well. I want her to start talking and only then I will forgive and forget. I cant even tell you guys the things she said to me. Ridiculous! I took initiative a lot and this time I just wont give in. Tell me what you think. If she never speaks to me, should i still go to her myself ( hurting my self respect to the deepest) my husband does not expect me to do that. He says he will make her do it or it is her choice to be unhappy forever. She says she will change and said few weeks back long back but still doesnt talk to me? my husband says she needs time. Is it true? can anyone understand what is going in her mind?
Hi '' Me'' I am Indian and my husband is always on my side and this is the main reason why she treats me worse. She cants see her son supporting me so much. As for money, he did a lot for them but now he and I both agree that we should set limits as we have our own family now. We just cant keep giving money without a very strong reason other than basic needs.
Hi '' Me'' I am Indian and my husband is always on my side and this is the main reason why she treats me worse. She cants see her son supporting me so much. As for money, he did a lot for them but now he and I both agree that we should set limits as we have our own family now. We just cant keep giving money without a very strong reason other than basic needs.