In laws with newborn, am I being unfair?

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I had to live my my boyfriends parents for most of my pregnancy and expected to have the baby there. The whole time they have been smoking meth behind closed doors. His mother is especially addicted. She started rubbing me the wrong way by being racist, telling me what and how to do things while pregnant, invading privacy by opening the door and talking for 30+ minutes at a time without letting anyone get ONE word in, going on and on while on drugs for hours about her life stories. Just a real crazy mess. I recently got into a fight with her son and started walking down the street. She gets in the car and tries to come after me. I finally snapped and called her a crackhead. So needless to say they kicked me out. I have my own place for the baby so thats not a problem. But what is a problem is if I am not allowed over there and they want to take my baby for a day or two. I seriously resent these people so much for there way of life with small children. The way she raised her son and smoked cigarettes with him at 11 etc. I dont' want her alone with my baby. I certainly don't want him staying the night over that house. Even if they did allow me back. Am I being unfair?
 
In my opinion you should not expose your newborn child to that type of environment because it would be irresponsible and neglective of you when you know they are doing drugs. Anything could happen to your baby over there. Like you said they are the in laws and you are the mother so please make the best decision for your child and do what you think is right.
 
nope - but you'll have to document this stuff if you want a court order to stop the baby's father from bringing the child into such an unhealthy environment.

there's no law that says the in-laws HAVE to have access to the child, btw.
 
this is your baby and you should do your best to protect it from these people , do not let them take it ever , if they want to spend time with the baby tell them they can come over to your house and set a time limit and say they should be drug free and there will be no smoking , after all you only want what is best for your child and so should they .
 
No offense, but you gotta be kidding me! They're crazy crackheads and you're worried YOU aren't being fair by letting them alone with your child??? If it were me I wouldn't let them see the baby AT ALL, let alone without you present.

This is YOUR child, and you are the only one who seems to be looking out for it. Let them gripe and complain all they want - grandparents have no rights to grandkids.
 
No offense, but you gotta be kidding me! They're crazy crackheads and you're worried YOU aren't being fair by letting them alone with your child??? If it were me I wouldn't let them see the baby AT ALL, let alone without you present.

This is YOUR child, and you are the only one who seems to be looking out for it. Let them gripe and complain all they want - grandparents have no rights to grandkids.
 
No offense, but you gotta be kidding me! They're crazy crackheads and you're worried YOU aren't being fair by letting them alone with your child??? If it were me I wouldn't let them see the baby AT ALL, let alone without you present.

This is YOUR child, and you are the only one who seems to be looking out for it. Let them gripe and complain all they want - grandparents have no rights to grandkids.
 
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