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Amy K
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My husband's sister has been coming to our house with his mother, his mother has no where to stay. His sister is 22 and doesn't/won't get a job and no car and won't stay at her own house. She was hanging out with the wrong crowd and blew all her money on someone that does not treat her good, lost at least 20 lbs in a month and got arrested for shoplifting. We used to be friends but now I just see her as a rude *****. No one asks me if she can stay the night, her mother basically takes care of her, she uses things without asking, takes showers, etc. She doesn't do it a lotbut I get very stressed when she is here. I told my husband and his mother once before that she was not welcome anymore, but it didnt stop. One day I found she used my personal amenities, I freaked and said I was leaving. Their mother stood up and said they would just leave, but that meant they had to stay at a hotel. I refuse to feel bad about it but don't know what to do. I feel like she uses me anyone she can