In-Law Issues -Was I in the wrong?

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Okay, so this is a long story I will try to make it quick. On Easter I was talkig with one of my sister in laws about getting my two kids baptised. The other sister in law who is very opionated butted in and said "Oh, good your going to get them baptisted right in time for first communion" I was kinda offended because she is allways juding other people and talkig crap. At that point in time I told her "Oh, what CCD classes are your kids goig too" (You have to be enrolled in CCD to go through first communion) She was like well um I started looking for them for classes. The I just turned my head ad ignored her. You could tell she was angry that I stood up for my self. Then I walked over to a couple (2) of my brother in laws and said nothing but just repeated the situation that had just happened. Oe of my other sister i-laws over heard me tell them. So two weeks later out of no where my phone strats blowing up with all these texts. It is the sister in law calling me a b*tch and saying I am stupid and that she is going to beat my ass and I belittled her as a mother ad I better watch my back. I was confused so I called her to ask her what her problem was. She was like you are so stupid you have bee talking behind my back and I never want to talk to you ever again. So she hung up o me but I wanted my side heard. So I texted her that "You made a snyde comment to me I made a snyde comment back to you I told the story to 2 people get over it and lets move on with our lives" and then she proceeded to text me back sayig completely rude things to me usig foul language and makig treats at me. So at family events we have just bee ignorig each other, well just recetly she came to my house to pick up hers kids my mother in law was over too and had just made the kids some food. Before she left I was going to take her to the side to let her know she is not welcome in my home after the way she treated me and she would be welcome as long as she apologizes. Well she left before I could say anything. Then the other day we had family come in from out of town (their family) from Texas. After the local fireworks she came over to my house again. So that evening I told my husbad that I did not want this sister here untill she apologizes. He said I should call her in the morning and tell her that so I did. I was nice and considerit and just told her after the way she treated me she is not welcome in my home until she apologizes. Well she completely blew up and the called her other sister who the told the whole family and then texted my husband that since I said that to his other sister we are not allowed at there house and b*tched him out. He tried calling her but she would not answer the phone. So was I wrong for asking my sister in law not to come over until she apologizes to me, should I have just sucked it up untill our visitors left then told her?
 
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