The bride & groom or the wed part? Im planning a wedding for this summer, and me and my fiance are paying for mostly the whole thing. We have not asked for our parents to help with the bill. But he is working full time and I am not employed because I am a full time college student. We dont have that much cash to pay for everyones tux and dress. Should we suggest they pay for their tux or dress, or should we offer to pay half and they pay half, or should we start saving now and hope we can afford all of the tux's and dresses? Please help!