Impotency...At 17?

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Mz.Swaggerific

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Pot and ciggs arent the only hidden boner slayers. Painkillers, extacy and coke will all kill boners too. (no, not in all guys, for some these enhance, for others, imminent softy occurs)

Oh and I cant really smoke pot and have sex unless I have lube because I experience what I like to call "cotton cunt". Its really unpleasant.

Dude reassure the girl cause shes probably feeling humiliated right now wondering if she smelled bad and killed your wood.
 
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I had this problem when I started having sex about a year and a half ago. The advice so far has been pretty good according to the research I did in order to fix it myself, but I have a couple of things to add that worked wonders for me. I've never had any issues since.

-I've never been on a substance, even alcohol, while having sex, so I don't know the effects of that, so go to someone else about that.

-It's not gonna just pop up and stay up on its own, and if she expects it to get that way just from seeing her naked, slap her in the face. It's got to have constant contact to stay hard. Have her touch it. (Or better yet, suck it. -Max)

-STAY WARM. If you're cold, there's no hope for you. Wrap up in blankets and cuddle close. This is the one that really did the trick for me. Why do you think your hands and feet are the first things to get cold? Because cold temperatures constrict blood vessels in extremities, preventing blood flow, and your dick's an extremity too. No blood flow, no boner. That simple.

-This one's a little harder to pull off sometimes, but if you can predict when you're probably going to have sex, hold off on the wanking for about 24-36 hours beforehand. Mojo does build up.

Words from someone who's been through exactly where you're at, and fixed it. Good luck!
 
If you can get it up at other times, like when you masturbate, then it isn't impotency. It could be your diet, drugs, alcohol, ect ect ect.
 
Reading back...it appears I didnt either. Sometimes when reading these threads, ya get an inking of where you think they are going..so ya tend to skim the posts. I missed Stardusts.
 
I had sex twice last night.

I just don't like it that much. I do it mostly for my significant other, because she seems to like it. I mean, yeah, it's a blast, but the feeling doesn't last. It's sort of an empty happiness. Sure, you feel better for the moment in which it happens, but afterward, how much better off are you really? None, nada, zilch, you might as well not have done it for what you have to show for it.

Sex, throughout recorded history, creates nothing but misery. Or, at the very least, the misery, and complications that occur out of sex, far outweigh the marginal benefits thereof.

Sex is a very shallow connection between two people. Granted, it can be a part of something incredibly special. But by and large, it is not, and, for me at least, not nearly that important in a strong, functional relationship.

Then again, maybe I'm just a cynical prick.
 
Well, then I'll leave the spawning and misery to the rest of you poor saps.

I'd rather have a boat. :tongue:

Besides the point, I was just pointing out that his comments about "killing himself" due to the fact that his pecker doesn't work is a little absurd. Yes, I know he was joking, but sex is not THAT great.

Hell, reading a book with your significant other, holding hands, going for a walk, kissing, cuddling, all of these things are so much more fulfilling than bumping uglies. I'd much rather have a discussion about a movie with my girlfriend, than sex.

On topic: Dray's advice about the build-up is rock fucking solid. Don't beat off for about two days before, and you'll be able to fuck like crazy.
 
++ to stress.

Had a few situations myself.

If you can't get it hard by yourself, then it's a physical problem. If you cant get it hard with her, then it's a mental problem. This is a double-edged sword, but I think it happens to everyone at some point or another.
 
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