I'm young...so why am I not as interested in sex?

[melissa h]

Hi..I'm a 26yr old female..I'm finishing up grad school this coming up fall and am very in love with my boyfriend of almost a year. But..for some reason...sex...just doesn't intrique me as much anymore..I'm very active...hit the gym every morning...stay in good shape..and love having a great time...My boyfriend (oh yeah..we live together)...is a great guy...and loves sex....LOVES IT...I do enjoy it with him..and he does satisfy me...but sometimes I feel like I'm doing it just for him..I mean once in a while I'm 100% with it..lol...but other times I just kind of wait for him to get his...and sometimes it's a long wait b/c he can control himself very well.. I believe sometimes I know it's going to take him a while and I know by the time he gets his..I'll be so tired that I'll get ill with the situation. I feel that I may be trying to ignore sex simply due to the fact he lasts forever and I don't...lol...and by the time he does...I'm tired and can barely move... (sorry if too much info)...So what's going on? When we first got together I was willing 24/7..but now I feel like I avoid it.. What's wrong?
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[horsewize1]

Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. It's possible that he needs to do more to keep you "entertained" and desiring what he has to offer. Take certain times for him to solely please you and see if that helps you any. Also, odds are that since you are finishing grad school, you are very busy and stressed. It might be that once you finish and move on, sex will seem more fun for you, instead of just another thing to check off to make your partner happy.