i'm worried.

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Anirban711

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out of all the things in my life that have potential dangers to me, the only thing that i am worried about is as follows.

The girl that i like, who has a boyfriend that is going off to college after the year is out, and I have finally started talking again.

I want to be with her but can't tell her how i feel at the moment because of her boyfriend and all. like other threads have stated.

anyway, i am worried that i am going to become the "friend" as most of you have stated. I don't want to become just the friend, so are there any suggestions that you all may have.
 
but by telling her, it kind of eliminates all possibilities of getting with her for now. because of her boyfriend.

but what do i have to lose. well, a chance maybe. but then again.

edit: double post, but i hit the edit button.
 
Ouch, double post? You might wind up losing her as a friend if her man finds out tho too...just be careful messing with other guys' women. You wouldn't want that guy messing with her if she was yours, right?
 
Is she happy in her current relationship? If she is, I suggest being her friend. Let her be happy. If you really care for her, you want her to be happy no matter what, even if it isn't with you. Should they ever break up, don't try to swoop in and win her over, but swoop in and try to help her pick up the pieces and carry on.
 
I agree with Shishio and Tostig. You wouldn't want someone "going" after her if she were with you, so you should extend the same respect to her current relationship.

Be her friend, and don't cut yourself off from other potential relationships.
 
actually this guy is a flaming bastard who was after her when her and i had something going on in the past. He and his little friend were the whole reason that me and her split up. They started feeling on her and stuff, it pissed me off, and then she ended up getting mad at me for getting mad. They pretty much did it on purpose so that she would not be with me.

True though, I'm not trying to steal her. I am just trying to not become the permanent friend. thats what i am really worried about. I want her to be happy. she is right now, or though as far as i can tell and so i won't get all in the mix. but they are going to break up at the end of the year so that would be when i try to do something.
 
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