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Bex P
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i'm female and i'm 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months and i lost my virginity to him after 4 months. We have only had sex 4 times since. Loosing my virginity was completey my decision and he didn't force me into it whatsoever, he is 16 as well. Before having sex i got horny a lot more often than i do now. Since the first time having sex i can't be bothered to anymore. I rarely get horny and when i do i usually make the excuse of being too tired. Once i actually fell asleep while doing it after coming home from a friend's party. Although i find sex pleasuring, i receive more pleasure through oral, so we stick to doing that. I do receive orgasms when he performs oral on me, but that is the only time i orgasm. I also have no interest in giving him oral, and although have once tried with him, stopped after 1 minute as i couldn't be bothered to carry on. I had given 2 previous boyfriends oral and have not had a problem with that, what's wrong now? I am not a lesbian/bi or anything; i've only ever fancied guys. I really like my boyfriend but my laziness suggests to me that i'm going off him. I prefer to lie in bed and think about everyday life than do anything sexual. Can anyone explain my behaviour or give me any advice?