im thinking about having sex with my boyfriend...?

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boyfriend of two years (im 15, he's 16)
he's REALLY addicted to video games & it's kind of taking a toll on our relationship.

about two weeks ago, we were getting along & everything was fine until, of course, i mentioned something about having another guy come here (ONLY to piss him off) and it did...
im also really annoying (sometimes i would call him 30+ until he picks up his phone, & i also call him in school, (to piss him off) when he doesn't text back over a period of two minutes.
one time while he was sleeping, he woke up & had 98 missed calls from me. :/ (this was on new years eve)
when we started fighting which was a week & a half ago, he ignored me for a week and a half
he wouldnt call me or answer any of my calls (we only texted & in those texts he said that "he loves me, but sometimes i just act dumb (calling in school thing)
so i decided to play the game right back..i didn't call or text him like a maniac (as i usually do :P) for four days.
on sunday, he called me twice at almost 3 in the morning. i didn't pick up cause i was sleeping nor did i call back the next day. last night at 1 in the morning he called, but i was also sleeping. (he called three times) then before school, (today) he called me & said "i was trying to get ahold of you for a couple days now, & he was wondering why i didn't call back...he asked if i was still mad at him..not sure why? but anyway...then during school today he sent me a text saying that he wants to spend time with me (which he never does cause he has work on weekends) and he also sent a text saying "i love you and im sorry for annoying you, and i want to make this work,noone can replace you, i love you."
He also wanted to talk that night. But OF COURSE, i was blown off AGAIN cause he just HAD to play video games. So I got mad, & we started fighting AGAIN.
We barely talked since then (that was Tuesday).
Well yesterday he actually paused his video games and talked to me for like 20 minutes. He told me that he always works on weekends, and when he doesnt, he has school, and after school he just likes to go him and relax and stuff. (he said thats why he doesnt see me often) and he told me that he wished i was allowed at his house. I'm going to convince my parents, but what i really need to know is, does he care about me? He is playing with my head so muchhhh! One day he's into me, then the next it's about his video games. (my dad called him today cause he's gonna make all this little kid stuff he's doing stop)


help me figure out what to do :(
does he care?
and please, no rude comments. i know me and him both have issues we need to work on, but how can we fix them? and don't say break up, i wont. i love him too much.
and should i just not talk to him for awhile, like longer than four days...
to let him think about what he truly wants?
and if so, HOW LONG SHOULD "AWHILE" BE?
 
you sound like the worst fucking girlfriend ever,id honestly never date you. and why the hell would you have your dad call him, thats pretty fucked up
 
you can't fight fire with fire
texting him and calling him a 100 times is a no no
ignoring his calls to get back is just childish
getting your dad to call him and have a chat is a bad thing
if my gf's dad called me bitching just cause i work and play video games i am telling my dad and probably breaking up with my gf
when i step out of line which is rarely my gf tells me straight up what the problem is and hints that if it keeps up it will have to end one way or another
she doesn't tell me a guy is going to her house or her family doesn't call me
the guy likes video games..i know a lot of people like that
he obviously likes them more than he likes you
your causing to much stress on yourself and when you two do split your going to wish you did it sooner
 
First and most important...It is against the law for you two to have sex at your ages in every state except Indiana. Even if it is consensual on both your sides, it is considered sexual assault and could be statutory rape in some states. that's because most states say minors do not know what they are doing when it comes to such matters. So, let's say you two had sex and your parents found out...they could have him arrested and put in either juvie or maybe in an adult jail in the case of some states. Forget about sex for a couple of years. If he can't, then drop his a-s-s!!
 
You got your dad involved??? BAD IDEA. Dont get family and friends involved in your relationships, that just makes things worse! Also you are acting just as immature as he is, you need to stop too. You play games with him as well. He obviously cares about you. What you to can do to help the situation is stop playing games and you need to tell him how you feel when he stands you up so he can play video games. Its called communication and you and your bf are lacking in that department. No dont ignore him. TALK to him! Get these issues out in the open! The sooner the better!
 
it's illegal..ur playing silly games that shows maturity...he addicted to video games..read what u put here its just wrong u say things to p1ss him off ? to me this is 2 kids doing what kids do ...stupid things..being in a realationship has nothing to do with what u've asked.only good thing about this is that u know u have issues work on those....and don't even think about sex ..things r bad enuff between u 2 as it is and sex brings it's own problems which i can tell u ur not ready for
 
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