I've been seeing this amazing guy for about 6 week now, although we knew who each other were for at least the last 2 years. He's perfect -we have such a great time together. He's told me he loves me, and I stay over at his place almost every night.
The thing that's really starting to freak me out is I get the impression he's using me for sex. It's like all he wants to do when I get over to his place - and we don't go out on as many dates like we used to (that being said, he IS a real homebody and basically does work, gym, and sleep - but I knew that before I started seeing him), and the frequency of cute txt msgs or e-mails has slowed considerably.
I'm also freaked out because I know who his exs are - both lasted about 6 months and they were what I call "weekend boyfriends" - IE/ He'd only see them on the weekends and wouldn't let them visit or anything during the week. He also told me he didn't like them very much because they were 21/22 and he's 28 (like me). He doesn't do that with me, but he does blow me off to go hang out with his (straight) guy friends on weekends.
Any advice? Am I freaking out over nothing?
The thing that's really starting to freak me out is I get the impression he's using me for sex. It's like all he wants to do when I get over to his place - and we don't go out on as many dates like we used to (that being said, he IS a real homebody and basically does work, gym, and sleep - but I knew that before I started seeing him), and the frequency of cute txt msgs or e-mails has slowed considerably.
I'm also freaked out because I know who his exs are - both lasted about 6 months and they were what I call "weekend boyfriends" - IE/ He'd only see them on the weekends and wouldn't let them visit or anything during the week. He also told me he didn't like them very much because they were 21/22 and he's 28 (like me). He doesn't do that with me, but he does blow me off to go hang out with his (straight) guy friends on weekends.
Any advice? Am I freaking out over nothing?