I'm so sick of guys trying to pressure me for sex!?

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Ok i just met this guy who has asked me out and was going to come visit me today. We did fool around once but didnt go very far and i told him i wanted to slow things down and get to know him and he agreed. But today he texted me telling me he was horny.

The texts went like this:
HIM: Can we fool around a bit. I am horny as hell. I cant stop thinking about your (body)
ME: Im happy to see you and hang out
HIM: Like last time. I have to say i wont be able to control myself so i might need to do something before i come over
ME: Hmm maybe you should, i guess like you said stripping is not getting to know someone & im not someone who jumps into bed with people
HIM: Your mouth says no but last week your (body) just said a big yes. Come on not like we havent done stuff before
ME: If i had sex every time i wanted to id be a total slut
HIM: Your not a slut its not like you dont know me
ME: Just like to take stuff slowly, i guess if u dont like that u dont have to come over
HIM: Whatever. I will see how i go.
ME: Ok
HIM: (later on) Just forget about it. Im flat out today anyway
ME: Ok i am a sexual person just like to take stuff slowly & want guys to b interested in more than just my boobs and butt
HIM: Yeah. Ok.

Could i have handled this better? I was totally put on the spot and didnt know what to say. This guy has been calling me and invited me to go out with him once and we have talked about more than sex. Advice?
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No. iThink you handled it pretty well. He sounds like he's just wants sex. Dont give in and let him pressure you
 
You handled it perfectly. Dont ever let someone pressure you into sex. He pulled a real sleazebag move (and sounded like an excuse a rapist would use) when he said "Your mouth says no but last week your (body) just said a big yes."
 
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