I'm so extremely possessive, that even erotica makes me angry. I'm not even joking...?

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Chaffwheat

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Well, erotica DOES make me angry, and I can't figure out any other reason why it would. And regular pornography does not.

So my deductions are that it's because with erotica you get to know the characters better, and they're actually more human. But I'm so extremely jealous that I'm frustrated to know that any human can desire somebody other than myself.

So... how can I cure this?
I'm actually a guy.
But I'm flattered to know that my prose runs with feminine grace :3
 
Are you talking about with your boyfriends?

If I were you, stop worrying. If he wanted to be somewhere else, he would be. By tying someone up, you make them want to break free even more and go do exactly what you don't want them to. Let the guy be.
 
At least you can recognize your flaws. It's not the erotica. You said it yourself, you're possessive, so I would guess that's it's not only erotica that makes you mad. Do you get mad when some other male speaks to or admires your girlfriend? Haven't you ever admired the sexiness of another person NOT involved with you? Be thankful that: 1. your girlfriend is with you not them, 2. you're not blind so you can still see erotica and 3. you now know how women think when their boyfriends do the same thing you described. You just got a first hand look into the mind of a woman. Congrats!
 
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