I'm sick of life.

I never claimed I was the authority in everone's life.
Of course I am cynical, and I'm not just saying to get over it.

Im saying to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get off your fucking ass.

Nobody pity's me, and if they did I'd tell them to fuck off. I don't need pity, I don't feel sorry for myself. My life is harder than you could even imagine, and it would be simple for me to sit here and list all the reasons why my life fucking sucks as....like not having a car at all right now and having kids as well as a pregnant jobless sister and her fucking lazy ass fiance who quit his fucking job less than a month after moving into my house.

But you know what. I know life is supposed to be rough. I know there is a lesson in here I am supposed to learn. Sitting around whining and feeling sorry for myself doesn't help the situation.

Action and taking control of your life is the only way to get to your goal.

I do not expect pity, I don't fucking want it, and I'll be god damned if I am going to feel sorry for a single, childless 20 somtehing year old man who comes from a middle class family who has opportunities abounding, he's just too busy whining and being lazy about it.

That is LOGICAL. If something is paining you, FIX IT. Don't cry about it.

And to that point, I never say anyone has to do anything that I say. I don't really care. If unfa wants to waste his talent, his life, and his possibilities by sitting on his lazy fucking ass and crying about how nobody loves him and he doesn't have a good job instead of getting up and fixing the things that he is whining about that is his fucking problem. Anyone who pity's him is just feeding into his self pity fucking trip.

Unfa is one of my oldest friends. He knew exactly what my opinion and my comments were going to be when he posted this. I've said it many times through the years, and I will continue to say it.

Self pity is for the lazy and the week. I refuse to enable laziness.


And to that piont, this is not a discussion about me. If you have a problem with me or anything I say, you can start another thread about it. Other than that, stfu.
 
You're tired of being a doormat? Then grow a backbone. You're tired of being alone? Get off your fucking computer and meet some people. Shit man. You can fix the job thing, but its going to take a while. It's not like you can hope and wish and get want you want. But at least two of those things are easily fixable right away. Car sucks, this bus is your best friend now. If you don't like public transportation buy a old ass Town Car or some old reliable cheap Ford pick up for like 800 bucks. I know getting that money ain't going to happen right away, but save up while catching the bus.

No reason to sit and bitch and moan. Everyone gets tired of life. Suck it up. There is no reason to question why you were born, because you can't help that now. It's done. You're hear and alive. Part of being alive is dealing with life.
 
Despite the grumpiness of DG's posting, I do agree, maybe even with the same amount of grump. You know I don't like seeing you down and out around here. I've got your back, and a mighty soft (lies, it's buff and manly) shoulder for you to weep on, but I'd rather it not be used for that. I'd love to see some positive thinking from you, as nothing will happen with a constant flow of depressing thoughts.


Hang in there dude. I know you won't stop trying, as you're still with us.
 
I'm not saying I wouldn't stand up for unfa in a heartbeat, or shoot zombies if they were attacking, or shoot him if he turned into a zombie, or that I won't be his friend. Yes, I sound grumpy and bitchy and cynical. Over the last few years, have I ever been anything else? No, because I am a bitch, and I am entirely disillusioned with the universe and I simply lack sympathy and patience. That doesn't mean I am not empathetic, but I am not going to hold someone's hand if they can't wipe thier own ass. And I certainly don't respect someone that has so much to offer but spends thier time in a state of eternal self indulging pity me bullshit.

If that seems crass, ask CL how much pity I have in my heart. He'll tell you straight up that I do not pity or feel sorry for anyone. Life sucks. It hurts. It is supposed to. Those who can get past that and stand up for themselves and make some kind of contribution to the universe have my respect. Those who lay about and cry about it do not.
 
Unforgiven, everyone has their moments where they are tired of life and feel like it's kicking their ass. It's rough. DG is right, and her method is appropriate, but I understand that's not enough. When you're ready you'll take control of your life again, and when you do things will start to look up. It will soon just be a matter of you getting tired of feeling down and deciding to take the reins back. I hope you feel better soon.
 
Another user is right thats not that big of a problem. My dad just died, my best friend just died and my dog died and I just found out I have cancer, plus my grandpa had a heart attack. so just remember it could be alot worse :)
 
;771355']My Uncle Raymond never had a car. But he walked to school knee-deep in the snow, with no shoes, uphill both ways, in the middle of July, all while pregnant with twins- and he still managed to win the Vietnam War all by himself with no arms or legs. He never complained.

Seriously, that sucks dude. Just look at it this way- there are certain things you can do something about, and certain things you can't. Seperate them, and then if you can't fix it, fuck it. Don't be afraid to call one of your buddies. Whatever it is worth to you, I just draw or go strap on my headphones and run for a while...that releives a little stress.
 
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