Im having 2 surgeries next week. the guys ive been on and off with who is now in his eyes were best friends and we sleep together has been very selfish. last night he called me and told me to come over in the morning. i walked a half mile in pain just to go see him and he wasnt there. i called him he goes my bad just go home i forgot so i walked back home. so since tomm is my last day here before i spend a week in a far away hospital i asked if i could come over in the morning and spend time with him. he goes no im getting ready for my nieces halloween party...wtf? i sent him a text saying u have something great under your nose and ur not gona realize til its gone and no response....what do i do from now what do i say how do i deal with him?