I'm really nervous to kiss my gf, i'm afraid it'll lead to sex?

[Chris]

so i just got a gf, and we've been going out for a few months til recently i asked her to b my gf n she said yes. well there's a lot of tension building to kiss eachother. plus i recently got a txt from her saying that she really wants to kiss me. there's been a couple opportunites. one, we where sitting at this deck at the edge of a pond underneath the stars. and tonight, but i was w/ my friends. she told me i shoulda walked her to the door and kissed her. but she said it doesn't suck b/c she feels the pressure too. i haven't really kissed anybody b4 unless you count her on the cheek. but i mean on the lips though. im a lil nervous, but i really want to kiss her though. a couple things that are stopping me, one is that i am a lil nervous and not sure what to do exactly since i never kissed anybody on the lips, another is that i like her a lot and don't want to get 2 ahead of my self where the kissing leads to something. With being a guy and w/ hormones i feel like if i kiss her and we have a long make out session then it will lead to sex. i think I want to have a long term relationship w/ her and yea sure eventually have sex. that's why i'm nervous about kissing her, b/c if i get too into it and end up having sex and possibly getting her pregnant, well there goes our careers. and i still have a few years of college maybe 2 1/2 but then another couple years of getting myself out there and trying to get into my career. and i don't want to have sex til i'm married which would b really nice or until i can financially support a family. idk i like to think i'm responsible b/c i'm really good w/ saving my money so why can't i do the same and b responsible and not have sex. it's just b/c being a guy and how our mind operates i guess that makes it hard to control ourselves. and should i tell her how i feel? that i do want to kiss her, but am afraid i won't be able to control myself. &/or to tell me to stop if we get too into it.