* CatLover *
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Okay, well, my husband and I played this fun game about a week ago, this sex game... and at one point I had to tell my husband about my fantasy. my fantasy was to get him naked and then cover him in whipped cream and cherries and then lick it all off! Lol, nothing too kinky, just sort of funny. But then well he told me that his fantasy was to ... well ... "pleasure himself" while watching a pregnant woman (me) make love to one of his friends... =/ And I laughed and laughed because I knew he had to be kidding. that was just too outrageous to be true.
But he's been acting so strange about it lately . Basically he said that acting out fantasies was the only way to prove that a marriage was strong enough... he wants me to have SEX with his black friend Thomas while he watches. when he started talking about it, i was like, okay, fine, whatever, because i was bloated and felt bad (i'm 7 months). but he's SERIOUS about this and i don't know what to do.
he's not CRAZY ... but he's never acted like this before! I mean my husband is the most straightlaced person i've ever known. He used to help disabled children. But the thing is I heard him on the phone w/ Thomas earlier today and he was trying to set it up and i think tom agreed! I keep trying to tell him i'm not interested in having sex with other men (is it too much to ask that he'd just say okay and leave it at that?!) but every time i tell him he goes on and on about how blah blah blah a good marriage has to go through many tests etc. We fought about it earlier and he started CRYING and threatening to leave me (and OMG, he never cries) and then i started crying and i'm still crying on and off.
I'm just appalled.. I just don't know what to do. i never thought i'd have to deal with something like this. Especially not when there's a PERSON growing inside me. What is he thinking?????? What do I do? :/
But he's been acting so strange about it lately . Basically he said that acting out fantasies was the only way to prove that a marriage was strong enough... he wants me to have SEX with his black friend Thomas while he watches. when he started talking about it, i was like, okay, fine, whatever, because i was bloated and felt bad (i'm 7 months). but he's SERIOUS about this and i don't know what to do.
he's not CRAZY ... but he's never acted like this before! I mean my husband is the most straightlaced person i've ever known. He used to help disabled children. But the thing is I heard him on the phone w/ Thomas earlier today and he was trying to set it up and i think tom agreed! I keep trying to tell him i'm not interested in having sex with other men (is it too much to ask that he'd just say okay and leave it at that?!) but every time i tell him he goes on and on about how blah blah blah a good marriage has to go through many tests etc. We fought about it earlier and he started CRYING and threatening to leave me (and OMG, he never cries) and then i started crying and i'm still crying on and off.
I'm just appalled.. I just don't know what to do. i never thought i'd have to deal with something like this. Especially not when there's a PERSON growing inside me. What is he thinking?????? What do I do? :/