I had 7 ultrasounds (where my mother worked they had an ultrasound tech and she "practiced" on me) trying to see what my baby was....we supposed that is was a girl because surely we would have seen something pop up! HE WAS A BOY!
I lost weight with my second pregnancy and I am losing weight with my current pregnancy. My second pregnancy, I only ended up being about 10lbs more than i was when I got pregnant. He was 8lbs2oz...and I was induced early. He was only born about 10 days early but the doctor induced because he was afraid that the baby could be 12lbs (although I had only gained about 10lbs), he thought this from statistics because my first child weighed 9lbs8oz.
I dont think how much you gain has anything to do with how big the baby will be! And I wouldnt buy too much girl stuff either...well have fun and splurge on her...just hang on to the receipts!