I am married and have been with this guy for four years. The first four years have been really smooth but the past couple of months it has been a consistant arguement. I have a coworker of mine that i have known for about 5 almost six years now. He doesnt look at me like that but there was a rumor started in the company that we were doing things together. We obviously arent and there really isnt a connection like that at all when we talk. But for some odd reason I keep having dreams about this guy and alot of them are pretty dirty. I honestly dont know what too do. our friendship could never be like that and theres no connection even similiar to the dreams that i am having. It makes me angery at my self to wake up next to my significate other even if were fighting knowing im dreaming about somebody else and something that will never happen... Why am i having this dream and what should i do?