I'm leaving med-school for financial reasons, now my boyfriend is acting distance...

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Monika

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...against me...? Hi guys, I'm in med-school. I'm leaving it because of financial reasons (loan problems). After I told this to my boyfriend he's kind of acting distance against me. Like not talking much, not coming online much, not really giving me much respect anymore. Um, can someone tell me, why this sudden change? Thanks!
 
Maybe he liked you only because you were going to be a doctor and now has lost interest. I experienced a similar situation when I wasn't able to go to med school too. Best to leave this loser behind and move on!! Instead of helping you find a way to pay or being there for you, he's like ditching you so you ditch him first.

If he's not there for you during the bad times then he doesn't deserve to be there during the good ones.
 
Maybe he is disapointed because he just thinks your quitting, and the reason he was so attracted to you was because you knew what you wanted to do with your life and you had goals and were an independant women (I'm sure you still are). If finances are you issue then you should try switching schools or trying a differant approach, try MSN.com's college section or I'm sure banks would be glad to help you if you set up a meeting with them. And also tell him your exact reason for quitting, not because you got tired of it or it's too much work, it's just that you can't finacially support this.

Good luck.
 
you need to ask him face to face what's up or dump him. he needs to be a man and step up when you have problems and not add to your stress.
 
i think that he is planning to break up with you cuz long distance and guys (well some guys) dont go together. and i think that he doesnt really want a long distance relationship (cuz it is hard to keep one). so be prapared for whats gonna happen next. and if hes just being a jerk, by not giving you the respect, just leave him before he leaves you.
 
Sounds like you could use some support here. We are in a period of uncertain times, maybe you boyfriend is feeling the uncertainty, too. Is it possible that he feels regrets about your circumstances, and wishes there were something he could do about it?

I'd like to think you'll be able to get back into the medical track at some future time. Don't give up hope. I once had a friend who had to give up law school because of some unusual circumstances. Sometime later one of her law professors, who was familiar with her circumstances, contacted her, and helped her get her education back on track.
 
He was willing to marry you as long as you were going to me a woman doctor. Now he's going to have to work for a living.

Put him on the curb with the rest of the trash.
 
OMG How rude, was he expecting you to be the one making all the money, tell him to be a man and to be truthful and let you know why he is acting like that with you.
 
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