I'm in a weird relationship and i'd appreciate opinions.?

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sarbear

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I've been talking to someone for over a month and a half now and things were great. He still had some attachment to an ex of 2 years but i understood and by talking to his friends i trusted he really liked me. He always wanted to be with me and we talked and hung out as much as possible. But this weekend he ditched me and stopped talking to me for some reason. He then messaged my best friend on Facebook and when she asked how are you guys he replied not so good. I was completely confused. When she asked why his reply was I like her alot I just have alot going on that i can't handle and i don't want to deal with anymore BS.
Part of me thinks its just him trying to say we're done but from talking to him about this kinda stuff before i wonder if he's just scared?
Anyone have any opinions??
 
How's his family life? Does he hang out with his friends? Or has he found new friends that might not be so great? There's probably something going on in his life that's making it complicated enough that he doesn't want to get you involved in it and doesn't think that he should worry about a relationship right now. Ask him yourself what's going on, and if there is something else wrong, see what you can do to help. At the very least you can be there for emotional support.
 
2years? or 1 month? i mean u do the math and u kno where his heart is. u r basically the rebound chick which sumtimes can work but if he still in love and hes not the one who broke up with her then im pretty sure he still has feelings for her and i wouldnt have men friends who email my friends i believe the two should b separate unless u r in their presence then its okay. good luck keep us posted!
 
Sounds like he's lost and just doesn't know what he wants. Leave him alone for a few days and if he comes crawling back you will know and if not well?
 
he doesnt want to be with you and he is taking the easy way out buy saying that to your friend knowing she would tell you... sorry girl move on there's better men out there
 
nope thank god that he realize soon enough whats going on with him...not to keep you on. Remember like in u....dnt mean love u...so HE is saying something, so u should UNDERSTAND it as it easy, dnt try to look in the way U WISH it could b....
DNT FOUL urself...SCARED OR not he dnt want 2 handle it plus that he stopped talking 2 u...what other response do u need girl...get up and keep walking, find someone else, u dnt need that...good luck!
 
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