I'm in a great relationship & we are discussing getting married next year. But I

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think I've fallen for someone I met this guy when he stayed over with my housemate. He's fun and interesting & uncomplicated & not sleazy (you know the type that's interested in a woman only as long as she will have sex with him). We had a great time hanging out and now he's left I feel terrible. What do I do? I'm confused
 
Sorry to say this, hope you are not mad, but it seems impossible that you are in a great relationship if you are so easily impressed by another guy. If a person is so in love they are close to marriage they understand that although other people can seem exciting (because they are new), it is the person you love that meets your essential needs. That is what is important. If you are going to get married it seems you should feel like he is special beyond anyone else. Ever look up love in the dictionary? It means, a deep and abiding interest. I don't think you have a great relationship. I don't think you are ready to marry him. I wonder too if you date this new guy after a year or whatever, you might get interested in someone else. Maybe it is the newness of the relationship that you are really falling for. It is very powerful.
 
Don't do any wrong things. Think first you found your boy and after long time only you found the other boy. Remember that the first one loves you. And you guys love each other very much. But when you lose the contact with your boy you may unintentionally forget him. It is because you didn't talk to him and have any relationship for that spell. So that kind of period you may find another man and it is ok in my opinion even to fall in love with that man. But keep in mind that if you take this decision you are hurting your first boyfriend. Just think how would you feel if he does something like this.

Ponder over it seriously. Forget the man who found you later. Be happy with the first one.
 
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